What stuff do i need for a baby..?

Best thing I ever bought was a sling. Moby or Sleepy Wrap are the bests. You can carry the baby around securely on you with both hands free to do dishes, laundry, vaccum, sweep etc etc. And it's also a million times easier to bring it out with you than a stroller. I recommend it to anyone. If you want to get a "traditional" carrier then go with an Ergo. The other ones are bad for their hip development. But ya, aside from a good sling/carrier I think you've got all the main stuff. You'll see about other things as you go.